Personaldevelopment q1 Mod3 Developingthewholeperson v2
Personaldevelopment q1 Mod3 Developingthewholeperson v2
Quarter 1 – Module 3:
Developing the Whole Person-
Evaluate One’s Personality
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What I Need to Know
This material was crafted to give you – learners, the right amount of
assistance for you to absorb and acquire all the necessary concepts and nature
comprising oneself. Lessons are bounded on the performance and content
standard, learning competencies and level of the learners. This also uses languages
appropriate to the understanding of the varied types of students’ learning
acquisition. Sequence of the lessons adheres to the arrangement of the
competencies as reflected on the DepEd’s curriculum guide for this course.
What I Know
A. a,b,c C. a,b,d
B. b,c,d, D. a,b,e
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be developed during adolescence?
A. establish sense of motivation C. establish sense of trust
B. establish a sense of self D. establish intimate relationship
7. Which term refers to a state of high regards for the perspective of others
and feeling concern with others?
A. Psychosocial development C. Self-Regulation
B. Cognitive Empathy D. Personality Development
10. What happens to our thinking and judgment if we are too emotional?
A. We can manage and resolve the problem
B. We can properly decide and manage personal matters
C. We cannot properly think and focus on resolving the problem
D. We cannot please other’s negative opinion.
12. In instant you are caught up not listening while your teacher discussing.
It is because your classmate distracting you. She calls your name in high
tone to answer the problem on the board. Instantly, you feel nervous, yet
you stand up and concentrate on the question. What is the flow of the
situation?
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A. feelings, actions, thoughts C. thoughts, feelings, actions
B. actions, feelings, thoughts D. feelings, thoughts, actions
13. You had a big fight with your best friend last quarter and never talked
after that. After a few weeks, you realized your mistakes and felt sorry
about your actions. What does this situation reveal about emotion?
A. emotions and feelings change, they are not permanent
B. emotion is a quick reaction to our thought
C. emotion is a self-distracting reaction
D. Answer A&B
14. As a teen that experiences psychosocial change, how you can improve
and prepare yourself in shaping your personality with broader
perspective?
A. Know how to handle thoughts, feelings and actions
B. Know the ways on how to stay focused to increase intelligence
C. Know the people who will comfort you
D. A&B
Lesson
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Developing oneself holistically may be the goal of everyone. However, there
are times that we lack awareness of our doings and actions that leads
to misunderstanding with others particularly our parents. This can also potentially
lead to self-harm. To know oneself is also quite challenging. To start picking the
pieces of ourselves and subsequently develop our individuality completely to be like
an “ideal” person is not easy. Learning and understanding our self is an advantage
in building your personality and stablishing relationship with others. Holistic
personality is necessary in stablishing your career.
Since you have already obtained a clear understanding of yourself as you
have done all the activities in the previous lesson, understanding the competencies
included in this module will be easy for you. Thus, you will eventually use all the
skills developing the whole person within yourself. So, get ready to unfold the
reality by removing the barriers toward understanding your true self.
What’s In
You are about to discover and share more of yourself. Try answering
the following activity below.
Activity 1: Let us know more about yourself. Recall your childhood and teenage
days. Share your activities, thoughts, feelings, strength, weakness, and other
characteristics that describe you. Write three or more descriptions each item.
Cognitive Aspect
(Your thinking ability)
Psychosocial Aspect
(Your peer relationship and
activities)
Spiritual Aspect
(Your values and moral principles)
Processing questions:
1. What aspect did you find difficult to answer? Why
2. How does each aspect influence each other?
3. Can you share a situation or experience that prove your answer?
Activity 1: Complete the box by interviewing 5 people who are older than you in
your family or friends and ask them to give 5 emotional adjectives that they
experience in communicating or building relationship with others. These emotional
adjectives will help you understand the different emotions that are expressed in
different situations. Take note that it should not be repeated.
Activity 2: Let’s see how well you can relate to the situations given. Discuss how
you behaves when you encounter these scenarios.
Feelings/ Results of
Scenarios Action
Emotion the action
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You have a classmate who leads
in making your classmates laugh
at you. He also makes you feel
that you do not belong to their
group. You always choose to
ignore but this time you can’t
stand with it.
Processing questions:
1. What did you discover about yourself?
2. Which aspect of personality do you give more priority to be dominant
in developing your well-being?
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3. How will you improve the weakest aspect of your personality?
As a child, you are dream of a good and satisfying life when you grow up.
Your family becomes your helping hand in nurturing, guiding, and educating
yourself. When you reach adolescence, you experience drastic changes in your
physical appearance, cognitive abilities, social relationship, and emotional
behavior. At this stage, our environment becomes part of our development from
which we acquire knowledge and collect information to organize and interpret
different life situations.
That is why they search for their self-identify and independence which
requires guidance from their parents, relatives, and other people like teachers with
whom they can share their struggles. These experiences and challenges are part of
a process of personality development that adolescents need to understand.
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advise of other people in order to shape their future with broader perspective and
self-determination.
You cannot escape life challenges so you should know how your thoughts,
feelings, and actions in managing personal agency should be handled. Being
an adolescent, you should be accountable for all your actions because these power
triads (thoughts, feelings, and action) can either make or break your motivation to
take charge of life. It is up to you on how you will handle it. Remember, your
judgement is based on your views in life, and it is rooted on your upbringing.
There are instances when feelings are faster than emotion and thought. This
would result to fast reaction and realizing the emotion and thought afterwards.
Either positive or negative, feelings result to actions. Emotions can direct and
control thoughts that sometimes affect your consciousness. This can also lead
to loss of focus. As a teenager, it is very important to be focused on your goals.
A focused thought will lead to high intelligence. That is why if you are disturbed
with your emotion, try to figure out where the emotion is coming from, and it will
bring you back to reality.
Watch : https://www.oercommons.org/authoring/21202-adolesce/1/view
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What’s More
There are a lot of challenges that would help us understand ourselves better.
Try answering the activities below to find out the relationship of thoughts, feelings,
and actions to better understand yourself and how to manage conflicts between
you and your family, friends and others. Using the following situation, complete
the conflict management diagram. Write the negative response in letter A and
positive response in letter B.
Situation 1: You’re walking alone on the road that is so dark and you heard a
whimper nearby.
Situation 2: You’re working on your research paper and you need to concentrate
on it, but your brother plays his electric guitar despite you calling his attention
many times.
Situation 3: You are about to enter the door of your house then you hear your
father who is drunk shouting sarcastically at you because it is already past 8:00
pm when you class ends at 3:00 pm.
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Situation 4: Your teacher tells you that you that you have been selected as the
representative of the school to compete for a division contest and this is your first
time to participate in a competition.
Situation 5: You are the leader of your group but while presenting
the concept that you worked on the whole night, but your ideas fail to impress one
of your classmates which upset you.
Confusion
Identity vs. confusion
Challenges Thought
Social Development
action
Self-Regulation
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Cognitive Sympathy Module 3
Adolescence
What I Can Do
This time, express your thoughts, feelings, and action through abstract
painting, you can use brushes, hand painting or painting technique you want to
use. To will express your thoughts feelings and action apply thinness or thickness
of lines, colors, shape, and texture. The following are the suggested materials you
can prepare. Follow the instructions while doing your self-expression painting.
Materials:
Poster paint (different colors)
Brush
1/8 Illustration board
Instructions:
Find a place where you can work.
Prepare the materials.
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Close your eyes and contemplate for 30 seconds.
While your eyes are closed, try to capture the colors, shades, textures
or shapes of your feelings.
Now, it’s your time to paint your feelings.
Write a short description and title for your output.
My Self Reflection
Assessment
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Multiple Choice: To fully understand the lesson, read each
statement/question carefully and choose the best answer. Write the chosen letter
on a separate sheet of paper.
1. This is an important aspect that we need to consider focusing on to be
developed as a strong and healthy individual.
A. Cognitive empathy
B. Personality
C. Life motivation
D. None
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C. because of incomplete development of their frontal lobe
D. because of confusion
9. The following are ways on how to be responsible with our own behavior
and actions, EXCEPT.
A. Have a focused mind
B. manage feelings and emotion
C. Examine the situation
D. Make a fast reaction
10. While you are cooking you accidentally touched the hot surface of the
pan. What reaction of your body comes first?
A. feelings, action, thoughts
B. actions, feelings, thoughts
C. thought, feelings, action
D. feelings, thoughts, actions
11. Learning to identify our strength and weakness will help in forming our
individual personality. The following statement are parts of development,
except?
A. We can judge others easily
B. We learn to accept others too.
C. We can understand our selves better
D. We become successful in dealing with
12. You are playing at the covered court with your friends, while playing, you
notice that your crush is looking at you. You want to show that you are
good in playing. What is the best thing for you to do?
A. Stop playing and ask her to watch you.
B. Concentrate on your play while she is watching.
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C. Inform your teammate that there are girls watching
D. Stop playing and hide.
13. You are invited to help in organizing a youth event in your church. You
are about to work with other teenagers whom you don’t really know.
Which of the following situations shows a social interaction barrier?
A. Show a smile when you have eye contact with them.
B. Show to them that you want to be friends with them, saying Hi for
example
C. Show that you are hesitant because you think they are not
approachable
D. Show a feeling disgust and discomfort
Additional Activities
Since you have a wide range of understanding on your thoughts and how
you behaved in the past, recall an instance wherein you became so unfair to your
parents, siblings or friends because you were experiencing adolescence
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developmental change which was broadening and refining your characteristics that
would help in realizing your perspective in life.
Kindly write a letter of apology addressed to the person whom you have hurt
the most, but very much deserves to hear your story. Explain to him/her the
difficulties you were undergoing during those days. Make this person remember
how you behaved and tell him/her the reason why. Also, make him/her
understand that you also needed his/her understanding so you would be able to
surpass the stage of development.
Dear_____________,
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Answer Key
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References
Ashbey, Kate. Adolescence: Crash Course Psychology #20, Video.
OERCommons. 8/11/2021https://www.oercommons.org/authoring/21202-
adolesce/1/view
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Martha Lally and Suzanne Valentine-French.Lifespan Development: A Psychological
Perspective Second Edition (Published 2019).Book. Open textbook Library.
8/11/2021. https://open.umn.edu/opentextbooks/textbooks/540
Paris, Jennifer, Ricardo, Antoinette Ricardo, Raymond Daw. Growth and Childhood
Development.Open Textbook Library.Book.8/11/2021.
https://open.umn.edu/opentextbooks/textbooks/750\
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