Unit 3 Performance Counseling Notes
Unit 3 Performance Counseling Notes
PERFORMANCE COUNSELING
3.1 INTRODUCTION
counseling with their employees and seek to minimize the possible risks
for Individuals and Teams is the key document outlining how performance
of this.
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The policy is important for performance counseling as it:
Clearly outlines the roles and responsibilities for managers and staff in
performance management;
Describes where, and how, counseling fits with other elements of the
framework;
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Provides some advice and guidance on conducting it, including a list of
All managers and staff need to undertake and meet their roles and
responsibilities as outlined in the policy. Where these are met, the potential
face-to-face meeting.
session or the performance issue warrants immediate formal action due to the
formal one as the underlying principles apply to both, although the formal
persons present.
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3) Advice on Conducting Performance Counseling
useful for staff being counseled and for anyone wanting to provide
performance feedback.
both employees and managers. Being prepared in advance for possible staff
management of staff. Planning the discussion and trying to anticipate the staff
member's reactions and their response can be helpful to address many stress
2. Traumatic stress;
3. Financial problems;
5. Domestic problems;
6. Grief; and/or
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7. Health/disability problems
10. Harassment
related behavior, and enhance the rate‘s ability to set and reach career goals.
The best counseling is forward looking, and reaches career goals. Counseling
better. Counseling should be timely. Counseling only at the end of the rating
and work related behavior can be resolved in time for improvement before the
next annual rating. Counseling should be begin with feedback from the
employee and about his / her performance before giving the feedback
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3.3 OBJECTIVES OF PERFORMANCE COUNSELING
3. Gain insight into his behavior and analyze the dynamics of such
behavior
the need arises for focused, two ways communication aimed at subordinate
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3.5 PROCESS IN PERFORMANCE COUNSELING
discuss past performance and develop plans for future performance objectives.
1. Preparation
2. Conduct
3. Review
Performance Management Plan for the trainee and should provide a structure
for including outcomes from assessments and performance objectives into the
Following such a process ensures that the supervisor considers all data,
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formulates reasoned assessments, and provides an appropriate opportunity to
Phase 1 Preparation
formulating objectives, identifying the time, place and resources for the
supervisor must study the trainee‘s past record and most recent performance
evaluation, together with any other data that can be obtained regarding their
situation. This step allows the supervisor to form preliminary expectations and
objectives for the interview. At this step, all information from the trainee‘s
other assessments.
The supervisor must determine the reason for interview and the structure
that it will take, and clearly formulate interview expectations and purpose. It is
important to provide enough time for the interview and identify a suitable
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during the interview. Such a guide ensures that all information is substantiated
by background data, that each topic or issue of relevance is covered during the
interview, and that enough time is allocated. It also enables the supervisor to
The interview guide is used to support the interview process itself and
assessments should be reviewed in detailed the guide and any outcomes from
the interview are then built back into the overall plan.
schedule. The interview schedule enables the supervisor to plan the content and
appropriate to include options for both supervisor and trainee to sign the
document.
Phase 2 Conduct
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In general terms, all performance interviews should consist of two
elements:
this avoids over-scrutinizing past performance and allows the sentiment of the
of roles and expectations for the interview. The opening is best achieved by
own preference.
openness. Rapport consists of greetings and small talk which enable the trainee
to gauge the supervisor‘s attitude and feeling towards them. The process can be
b. Orientation usually forms the second step in the opening and typically
explains the purpose, duration and format of the interview and how any
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At the end of a successful opening, each party should be aware of the
purpose of the interview, attitudes and feelings toward the purpose, the roles of
each party and the expected outcomes. Each party should also have an
2. Body
The body of the interview provides the supervisor and trainee the
opportunity to discuss all content areas and must include the following:
focus must remain on facts and the performance issues being discussed.
The trainee should not be compared with others and the discussion
goals, the interview should act as a means by which the trainee is able to
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expectations. The trainee should be made to feel that they are taking part in
3. Closing
the success of the interview as a whole and the ongoing relationship between
supervisor and trainee. The supervisor should therefore remain positive and
ensure that the interview closes without ambiguity or uncertainty on the part of
the trainee.
If the performance interview has not been successful, the closing should
undertakings.
Phase 3 Review
and ensuring that the objectives of interview have been met, that the trainee has
performance during the interview for self development purposes. If a peer has
attended the interview, their feedback should also be sought during this
process.
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Interview process Flowchart
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3.6 TYPES OF COUNSELING
Supportive Counseling is most often used with people who have difficulty
standing alone amid their problems. At frequent intervals these persons may
chronic dependency upon the counselor, but to give temporary support and help
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Confrontational Counseling seeks to point out to the client his or her actions.
The counselor guides the counselee into seeing what misdeeds were committed
and to realize the hurt that might have been caused to others. The idea is that
hiding one‘s immoral actions only creates guilt, frustration, and anxiety. As a
Christian, the counselor must help the client to confess, forsake his sins, and
People may come to the counselor with questions on social issues, religious
issues, or even career problems. Often some clients may need help in making
things from getting worse. Areas like ―How to Keep Healthy,‖ ―How to
preventive counseling.
They do not play around with depth counseling if they are not a professional
therapist.
visit, or during an informal home visit, the counselor may be drawn into a
conversation where their help might be asked for. Or you may meet a friend on
the street and ask, ―How are you today?‖ Then you may be told of a problem
that he or she is experiencing. Your time and concern could be of help at that
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time. Informal counseling may not seem very important, but it has helped
many.
approach. Perhaps blend the different ideas that appeal to us. There are some
theories that we may not agree with. However, it is educationally beneficial for
us to know them. Taking an idea from one approach and another idea from
another approach to form our own counseling method is what is often done.
1. Psychoanalytic Therapy
2. Adlerian Therapy
3. Existential Therapy
4. Person-centered Therapy
5. Gestalt Therapy
6. Transactional Analysis
7. Behavior Therapy
8. Rational-emotive Therapy
9. Reality Therapy
1) Psychoanalytic Therapy
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behavior is influenced by unconscious motives and conflicts. One is driven by
referred to as psychosexual stages: the oral stage (the first year of life), the
anal stage (ages 1-3), the phallic stage (ages 3-6), the latency stage (ages 6-12),
the genital stage (ages 12-18), the genital stage then continues throughout the
Freud contends that feelings of love and trust, dealing with negative feelings
and developing a positive acceptance of sexuality, are social areas that are all
cemented in the first six years of life. Later, personality development is built on
Erik Erikson built on Freud‘s ideas and by extension stressed the social
infancy (trust versus mistrust), early childhood (autonomy versus shame and
doubt), preschool age (initiative versus guilt), school age (industry versus
2) Adlerian Therapy
theories. He thought that Freud was too narrow in his emphasis on the
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biological and sexual determination. Like Freud, however, Adler believed that
the first six years of life influenced an individual. He did not focus on past
events like Freud did. He was more interested in how one interpreted his past
belief that humans are motivated primarily by social urges rather than sexual
urges.
3) Existential Therapy
existential approach, but Viktor Frankl, Abraham Maslow, and Rollo May are
theoretical model.
4) Person-centered Therapy
1987). Because Rogers placed much emphasis on how people get, share, or
surrender power and control over themselves and others, his theory became
themselves with their clients. They focus on reflecting and clarifying the verbal
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According to the person-centered therapy, the relationship of the
therapist and client is very important. Basic techniques include active listening,
5) Gestalt Therapy
Gestalt theory. This is an existential approach that stresses that people must
find their own way in life and accept personal responsibility for maturity. By
developing an awareness of what they are doing, clients can use this
unfinished business in the forms of resentment and guilt. The emphasis of this
therapy is on doing and experiencing rather than merely talking about one‘s
feelings.
6) Transactional Analysis
1970). This therapy is very different from others in that it focuses on decisions
and contracts made by the client. The basic philosophy is that the client has the
potential for choice. A contract made by the client clearly states the directions
teaches that the personality is made up of Parent, Adult, and Child. Other
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keywords used in TA include game, decision, life script, re-decision, stroke,
and discounting.
7) Behavior Therapy
Behavior therapy is the most studied and most familiar of all the
counseling approaches. There are a number of key figures associated with this
theory: Arnold Lazarus, Albert Bandura, B.F. Skinner, M.J. Mahoney, David
to help people take steps to change what they are doing and thinking.
Terms that are frequently used in this therapy are behavior modification
the goals of treatment, and the development of specific treatment plans. The
assumption that human beings are born with a potential for both rational or
Taking for granted that people are fallible, RET attempts to help them
accept themselves as people who would continue to make mistakes, yet at the
same time learn to live with themselves and be at peace with themselves. RET
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Ellis stresses that people choose to be disturbed rather than be
beliefs and keep themselves disturbed by these beliefs. RET also assumes that
people have the capacity to change their cognitive, emotive, and behavioral
processes; they can choose to react differently from their usual patterns and
refuse to become upset, and train themselves so that their life pattern will be
9) Reality Therapy
strength and stresses that a client can learn more realistic behavior and
therefore achieve success. Reality therapy assumes that we choose our behavior
and are therefore responsible not only for what we are doing but also for how
establish an involvement with the client, which encourages him or her to assess
believed that the client can improve his or her quality of life.
3.8 BENIFITS
philosophy is quite simple: People can grow and improve their competence and
performance with timely help and proper coaching. ‗An effective counselor-
manager is one who helps his employees to become more aware of their
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strengths and weaknesses and helps them to improve further on the strong
Helping
relationship is one in which at least one of the parties has the intent of
coping with life of the other‘ helping can be reactive or proactive. When help is
given to someone who seeks help (or seen as requiring help) it is reactive
behavior. On the other hand, when help is given because of the helper‘s need to
give, helping is proactive) In the Indian context, when the receiver‘s need is
dominant it is called Biksha, but if the need of the giver is more important, it is
called Daan. In Biksha the giver has the upper hand, whereas in Daan the
recipient has a higher status (because he obliges the giver by accepting help). In
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the western literature, of course, the helping relationship is examined from the
Helping relationship
The Task
There are basically two ways of approaching the task from the
the helper (as an expert) treats the recipient as a patient (‗assistance‘ approach
and comes out with alternatives. In the other approach, called ‗educational
approach‘, the helper knows that the client is capable of doing things
independently and hence, acts as a facilitator only (who works with thelient in
the client‘s frame of reference) laying strong emphasis on the client‘s problem
solving skills.
The Helper
concerned with controlling the other person. Ineffective helpers, often, do not
act in the client‘s best interests. They do not allow the client to develop a
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personality of his own. They are inward working and are more concerned with
their own needs to feel superior and try to peer over the shoulders of clients
empathic, non-threatening and one ice who is willing to influence but not
helper) and the environment. A climate of trust and openness should be there.
The discussion should focus attention on how to achieve assigned goals, taking
should follow in order to minimize the potential conflict. Most importantly you
means to threaten the employee with disciplinary action. Your purpose is not to
about which you are concerned. In this light, you should view counseling as a
problem-solving exercise.
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Where an employee's performance has consistently fallen below
standards, it may be necessary for you to advise the employee that failure to
action.
1. Be prepared. Spend time reviewing the facts and defining your objective
for the session. You may find it useful to prepare a set of ―talking
points‖ in advance to help you be clear about the issues and point you
wish to make. These talking points do not become the counseling memo.
an office, perhaps that is the best place to schedule the meeting. If not,
you should seek another private room away from an employee's co-
violations of rules.
rushed with other duties. It will leave the impression that your concern is
watch, or you rush the employee out after only a few minutes and before
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4. When an employee enters your office, act in a manner consistent with
5. Consider setting ground rules. For example, tell the employee that you
are hoping for a conversation to work out the issue. You may say
something like ―Please hear me out without interruptions, and then I will
true, let the employee know you expect to be able to resolve the issue in
a positive way.
7. In broaching the issue(s), you should explain the exact nature of your
concern, making clear what has been observed and why it is important.
For example, you might say: "I received a report today that you were
rude to two customers. Obviously, the report concerns me. I want to take
this opportunity to discuss the report with you and hear from you what
involved, you might have added that to the introductory remarks. You
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8. Where employees are cooperative, your job will be confined to
determining what the employee's view of the incident is. For example, if
you should follow-up by asking: "Could you give me the details from
not mean that you must yell back. You are the supervisor and to control
the meeting you must control your emotions and reactions. Rather than
advise the employee that such behavior may result in disciplinary action.
If the behavior continues, you should halt the session and discuss the
10. Focus on the behavior of the employee, not the employee's "character"
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example, it is appropriate to say, ―Your behavior on the ward today was
11. Be a good listener. Give the employee the opportunity to explain his or
12. Keep an open mind during the counseling session. If the discussion
more likely to accept your judgment if you have given him or her the
opportunity to explain.
wish to make those decisions at the time of the counseling, but ask to
see the employee at a later date after you have considered the options
14. If the employee indicates that the problem is personal, or if you have
some indication that the problem is other than work related, tell the
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employee about available assistance, such as the Employee Assistance
Program (EAP), which can help employees deal with personal problems.
15. Reach an understanding on the corrective action which will be taken and
16. At the conclusion of the counseling session, you should thank the
employee for seeing you and extend yourself to the employee should
further problems of this nature arise. Ultimately you want the employee
to know that you are available to assist in solving such problems before
they erupt into the types of incidents which prompted the counseling
session.
17. If you intend to confirm the session in writing, inform the employee that
you intend to write a counseling memo and that a copy will be placed in
plan of action that helps the subordinate achieve individual goals and
a plan of action, and then support the subordinate throughout the plan‘s
commitment to improve and candid in his own assessment and goal setting.
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performance. Counseling performance does however; provide a useful
framework to prepare for almost any type of counseling session. It can assist
another person to the point that you can almost feel or experience them
shoes, they can see a situation from the other persons perspective. By
subordinate develop a plan of action that fits the subordinates personality and
what they say and do counselors who lack credibility with their subordinates
not the performance met the standard and what the subordinate did right or
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wrong. The key to successful counseling for specific performance is to
measure your own performance and counseling emphasis, you can note how
and achieves the standard. Once the subordinate can achieve the standard, the
team members when they report in. This reception and integration counseling
serves two purposes. First, it identifies and helps fix any problems or concerns
that new members have, especially any issues resulting from the new duty
assignment. Second, it lets them know the unit standards and how they fit into
the team. It clarifies job titles and sends the message that the chain of
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immediately upon arrival so new team members can quickly become integrated
establish performance objectives and standards for the next period. Rather than
and action.
organizational and individual goals. During the counseling, the counselor and
strengths and weaknesses and create a plan of action to build upon strengths
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near and long term goals and objectives. Every persons needs are different,
and counselors must apply specific courses of action tailored to each client.
NONDIRECTIVE
telling the subordinate about the counseling process and explaining what s
expected.
During the counseling session, listen rather than make decisions or give
advice. Clarify what is said. Cause the subordinate to bring out important
DIRECTIVE
using the directive style does most of the talking and tells the subordinate what
Choose this approach when time is short, when you alone know what to
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COMBINED
In the combined approach, the leader uses techniques from both the
With your assistance, the subordinate develops his own plan of action.
You should listen, suggest possible courses, and help analyze each possible
solution to determine its good and bad points. You should then help the
subordinate fully understand all aspects of the situation and encourage the
Advantages Disadvantages
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subordinate‘s.
Combined Moderately quick. May take too much
Encourages maturity. time for some
Encourages open situations.
communication.
Allows counselor to
actively use his
experience.
counseling as part of a manager‘s everyday life, ―We all have been counseled
at some time. We all have been counseled by somebody else. It probably hasn‘t
been called that, it was just something that happened as part of two people
Workplace has tried to address this issue by explaining that ―Much workplace
counseling is not counseling in the modern definition of the term but relates to
The manager can use his/her communication skills and tools in the
employees behave as they do. This will help him identify the factors that
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This also improves communication and essential feedback mechanisms that
goals and job performance. Counseling helps in regaining the self-esteem and
impact on the staff. The manager-counselor must show the following qualities
positive change in his people with counseling, he must not project his own
values onto them. Respect can be shown by listening to his story in a genuine
the same can be generated by accepting his/ her uniqueness. This can be
expressed through warm gestures and comforting tones. Sometimes respect can
3) Empathy:
his employee‘s situation. The travels with his employee‘s emotion, identifies
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In Rogers definition ―Empathy is an accurate, empathic understanding of the
client‘s world as seen from the inside. To sense the client‘s private world as if
it was your own, but without losing the ‗as if‘ quality – that is empathy‖.
4) Winning Trust:
The counselor-manager can win the trust of his employees with his
honesty in his statements and actions. He has to prove his credibility so that he
can earn his sub-ordinate‘s trust and respect forever. The manager has to
5) Understanding of self:
should be aware of his own values, needs and prejudices so that he will be
careful before projecting his feelings onto his employees. He has to understand
that counseling is not a trick nor it is simple. It is not easy to see things from
effects.
6) Establish a Connection
practical matter he/she is trying to figure out what is going on in the other
the process of counseling. Counseling can be fruitful only when the troubled
employee feels a connection with the manager. He might cross the bridge or
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barrier for better behavior since he understands that his behavior is undesirable,
not him. He comes to realize that the manager desires to do some good for him
other. When message passes through the perceptions of the sender and the
receiver, it is a complex process riddled with many internal barriers. There are
many barriers to communication that can affect the manager‘s ability to get
his/her own message out. When we have trouble with communicating with our
communicating. He should also be aware of the fact that, other people may
generally they have more education and exposure than their employees. They
use more advanced and sophisticated language and concepts about the
business. So, they should choose the words, phrases or terminologies which are
managers should allow them to verbalize or talk out their problems, thus
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providing them the opportunity to open up with their concerns. Both the
parties, in this sense, use questioning and listening skills during the process of
signal like ―I want to know more‖. This process of asking question and
With active listening skills, a manager gives the signal that he/she is
rephrasing techniques can be applied to say that he understands what the other
person intends to say. In the process of echoing the employee, the manager
should be careful not to parrot every word that the person utters. It can be
annoying and might not be effective at all. Paraphrasing gives the manager a
Some clients are ordered by the court. Prisoners or other offenders are
sent so that they might receive help. Potential divorcees are sent for marital
counseling by the court also. Others, upon examining their situations, feel the
need for help or an improved life-style. Still some are referred for academic or
rapid help and change. Others go into counseling with a mindset that nothing
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will make a difference in their outlook and behavior. They go in order to satisfy
One of the most difficult clients to work with is the reluctant client. The
reluctant client is one who does not want to receive counseling but finds him or
for that part of the personality that has an interest in the survival of the
successful change.‖
clients are reluctant because of suspicion. Others are reluctant because they do
not want to change. Still others are afraid to admit to any possible flaws they
might have.
rejection to surface. The following are some suggestions for dealing with
1. Refuse to consider yourself the target of the reluctance. This will affect
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2. Show confidence and do not be intimidated.
3. Do not ignore the feelings of the client. Try to find out why he or she is
reluctant.
4. Try to interpret the reasons for the reluctance and use these as an
5. Show the client that counseling helps one to deal with feelings even if
reluctance.
happier one?‖ Another approach is ―Can we set up a goal for you to tell
Realize that you will encounter many reluctant clients. The test of your
strength is in keeping calm and showing that you will not take the
her, but only if you are allowed to. Above all, be professional in your behavior
at all times.
person. There are some characteristics that all counselors are expected to have:
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Have an identity. A counselor must know who he or she is. Know what you
want out of life and what you believe. Stick to your values and Christian
Appreciate the worth God has placed upon you. A counselor who
recognizes that he or she is ―of more value than many sparrows‖ is an asset to
the cause. With your name engraved in the palm of God‘s hand, how could you
Be open to change. Do not be satisfied with your present state. Strive to learn
more and be an investigator. Take risks and find out new methods. There is a
Develop your own counseling style. Use your strengths and skills to develop
your own counseling style. Study appropriate material thoroughly. Read and
view videos. Always, remember to be the best counselor you can be.
Be open, sincere, and honest. People recognize and hate insincerity. Let your
Be sensitive to people’s culture. Note that people are different and that is all
right. Respect and have a high level of tolerance for people who are different
from you.
hope that we believe in. With Christ in our hearts, hope is always there.
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Enjoy life. Learn to leave the problems behind and enjoy your own life. Do not
perpetually carry around the cares and problems of clients. You need to
experience your own periods of refreshing. This will make you more effective.
Have a caring spirit. Show a sincere interest in others. This concern must be
campaign to change the world. This attitude could turn people away from you.
Be natural. People are attracted to people who are simple and easy to associate
Show confidence in people and in their potential for growth. People like to
Be a listener. One cannot counsel effectively if he/she does not listen. Listen to
what is being said and what is implied. Do not put words into the client‘s
around with papers and other distracting material. Do not be afraid of silence.
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Sometimes the client will speak haltingly and make long pauses. Be patient and
wait.
Keep God as your Guide. Claim the promise that God has given you. He has
Confidentiality is both a legal and ethical issue. The counselor should let
must be broken when it becomes clear that the client may harm himself or
others.
professional purposes only and with persons who are clearly related to the case.
Inform the client of this. Here are some circumstances that allow for the
reporting of information:
• When the therapist believes that a client under the age of 16 has been the
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The importance of confidentiality cannot be overstressed. This is a pillar
probationary period and within six months after an employee changes jobs
employee‘s performance that does not meet the supervisor‘s expectations and
delays a merit pay increase until such time as the performance improves to a
―meets‖ level.
performance problems.
done.
Policy:
time.
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Performance counseling has been described by Blocher (1996) the
time, the employee should typically be counseled again with the discussion
expectations. Report.
terminate employment
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conditions – in other words, the employer does not know what the charge
should be. He only knows that what is happening is unacceptable to him, and
The result of this uninformed action is that the employee is charged with
enough, the charge sheet also states that the trust relationship has irretrievably
broken down and that the employment relationship has become intolerable.
looks at whether the job, which the employee is being paid to do, is being done
properly.
discussion with the employee, training and so on, before dismissal is even
contemplated.
Performance is all about how the employee does the job – i.e. quality.
The first step is to hold a meeting (an informal affair) with the
employee. Explain where the employee is falling short, what standard is not
being met, and discuss the matter fully to see if the reason for the poor
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It may be a domestic crisis that the employee or it may even be a work
1. First and foremost, you must determine whether the employee‘s actions
2. In other words (and this is important) talk to the employee and find out
then it negligence and you can take the appropriate disciplinary action.
If however you find out that the employee does NOT KNOW what he or
she was meant to do, then its poor performance… this could be due to
lack of skills, not being trained or even not being told properly what to
1. Tell your employees what the required performance standards are – they
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4. Your employees must be given enough time and opportunity to perform
If you have followed this process and they still do not perform at the
required standard, then you can hold a hearing and take the appropriate action.
If however you find out that the employee does NOT KNOW what he
or she was meant to do, then it‘s poor performance… this could be due to lack
of skills, not being trained or even not being told properly what to do…., then
1. Tell your employees what the required performance standards are – they
If you have followed this process and they still do not perform at the
required standard, then you can hold a hearing and take the appropriate action.
This is quite a tricky process. If you need help, or if you just need more
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Staff warnings / performance counseling
When the staff members are not performing to the required standard, not
take place.
that meeting.
confrontation skills.
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Increased use of praise and recognition – with resulting motivational
benefits.
Staying on the moral and legal ―high ground‖ when dealing with staff
performance issues.
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